Why do Black Men Prefer White Girls?

Anybody who doesn’t live under a rock sheltered from dangerous things like minorities and black people know that black men prefer white girls. When a black man becomes rich and famous — what does he do? He gets a white girl.

And if you have to point out that there are black men who got very rich and very famous and picked a black woman, then you are truly retarded. It is a GENERAL TENDENCY, not a law! That’s how patterns work.

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Checkout this article written by a smart attractive black girl who works in the television industry.

Black Men Don’t Like Black Women

Black men don’t like black women.

Yes, I said it. I don’t mean all black men, but it’s true of many, and it’s a growing problem. I think I wouldn’t really care if other races felt this way about black women, but the fact that my own men do has made me consider turning my back on them multiple times.

My boyfriend and I were having a conversation about black men vs. black women. (He is black and Puerto Rican.) It started getting intense, and I said, “You don’t get it! Black men are viewed as sexy and, in a sense, a ‘trophy’ for another race, but black women are never deemed the most attractive. Other races are always seen as a trophy on the arm of a black man.”

Everywhere from pop culture to the hood, men are either consciously or subconsciously telling black women they aren’t “wanted.” I have seen black man not even look twice at black women whom I see as beautiful, yet I’ve seen them break their necks for decent-looking — dare I say unattractive — women of other races. Huh?

Why are rap songs all about white women? If you think I’m wrong, listen to your music and get back to me.

Granted, I think everyone is entitled to a personal preference regarding whom they like. But when, as a black man, you start saying things such as, “I don’t date black women; I don’t find them attractive,” I think we have an issue.

Even Psychology Today published an article about black women being unattractive. (It’s since been taken down.)

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve met many men who will openly say they don’t want a baby with a black woman. They want a baby with “light skin or light eyes and good hair.”


I never understood why it makes a certain type of black man feel good to have a white woman on his arm. It would be one thing if it were true love, but some are just doing it because they see it as a prize.

Huffington Post

I actually read that article on Psychology Today many years ago while it was still up. It basically said that white women and asian women were the most desired among all races.

The least desired were black women. Interestingly, black men were seen a desirable. This reality is mirrored in the article above. That black men are “exotic” but black women are not.

This created massive outrage and here is their public apology: Psychology Today Apologizes for ‘Black Women Less Attractive’ Post (The Atlantic)

Earlier this month, the popular magazine Psychology Today published an article by evolutionary psychologist Satoshi Kanazawa titled “Why Are Black Women Less Physically Attractive Than Other Women?” that was met, expectedly, with mass outrage.

The article used data based on another study to make several claims such as “black women are objectively less physically attractive than other women” yet “subjectively consider themselves to be far more physically attractive than others.”

The guy who wrote this got fired from his position. Not because he was wrong, but because it added to “negative stereotypes”.

If a negative stereotype is based on objective science, then it is simply an inconventient fact of nature. Here is an article (The Guardian) of why black women struggle to find high quality partners.

Why dark-skinned black girls like me aren’t getting married

Black women in the US marry less than others – and the numbers are even lower for darker skinned black women. Is colorism – favoring lighter skin – to blame?

The lighter the shade, the higher the probability of marriage.

The Guardian

The article goes on to claim internalized racism is the reason black women struggle. While I understand and respect this conclusion, I gently disagree.

There is an epidemic of obesity among black women. This is partially genetic (they are naturally “thicc”), but mostly lifestyle.

This fact alone would explain a big drop in the level of attractiveness. But there are several other reasons, as well.

Here is an Amazon book on why black men prefer white women:

Why Black Men Love White Women: Going Beyond Sexual Politics to the Heart of the Matter (Amazon)

Why do so many high-profile black men date and marry the most ordinary white women?

Why do so many other black men desire and covet the company of white women?

And why does this subject deeply touch so many people of both races?

The ratings are very mixed but 58% give it a 5 star rating. Here is one review:

Mr Persaud has hit black culture right on the nail. He shows how utterly disrespectful black people treat each other and how black men use white women to escape their violent and self serving culture.

Black people have a consuming culture not a producing one. He says that most black businesses tend to think more like hustlers and not honest and organized business people. I once dated a black girl in college and found out quickly that she was black first and a woman second.

If black women want white men, they need to act like women and be respectful. Mr Persaud explores all these issues. As a black outsider from the islands he has a unique perspective on black culture in America. His chapter on oral sex is spot on.

Amazon review

You can also read this review if you want another perspective.

If you are resisting the fact that black men like white women, then you are denying reality (probably because it hurts).

Do a small little investigation on black celebrities, and see what girls they pick? White women is a status symbol among black dudes.

When these guys walk into a room, women elevate from the floor and land on their dick.

Want to hear my brutally honest opinion on the matter? Since my identity is anonymous I can actually tell you what I think. Here are my top five reasons why black men prefer white women:

My Top 5 Reasons Why Black Men Prefer White Women


Black women are, on average, much fatter than white women or asians. Being obese is not attractive. That is one factor.

Growing up poor also means lower levels of psychical health, worse food, air, water, so on. Health very strongly correlates to looks. Healthy people are easier on the eyes.

The tap water in poor neighborhoods in America is quite bad. Massive amounts of Chlorine (toxin), Fluoride (toxin), and often lead and other heavy metals from old corroding pipes.

Psychical health is also the most important factor among all factors in determining happiness. Unhealthy people are less happy and therefore less attractive mating partners. Black women are, on average, less happy.


Black women grow up under harder conditions and also have much more testosterone than women of other races. There is quite a bit of difference. Not just a couple percent! Most men want a nice, kind, cultured, “civilized” wife that won’t cause too many problems.

Testosterone gives attitude, and a hard upbringing brings fighting spirit, or “attitude” as it’s often called by word of mouth. If you father or husband is in jail you have to do the fighting yourself.


Call it what you want, but there is a preference for fairer skinned individuals across the world. This has always been true in China, for thousands of years, because the workers on the fields were always dark skinned. They also look up to “white poeple” and western civilization in many ways.

South Koreans are notorious for operating to look white. When I lived in America I knew an asian girl who always wore an umbrella as ahield against the sunshine so she wouldn’t tan. There is a strong preference for “fair skin” or “whiteness” in asian culture.

I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard stories if the darker skinned kids in an african-american neighbourshood getting bullied. This could be called “light skinned priviledge”, but is really just an extension of the overall light skinned preference in our world. Having dark skin is seen as a “weak link” in the totem pole of status & hierchy.

This shouldn’t be the case, but my obligation is to reality not a fantasy land utopia where everything is perfect and girls want it in the ass every night.


There is a certain skin tone that is perfectly adapted to the level of sun exposure you get in America (depending on where you live). Californa has sunshine all around the year, so people are more tanned than in other colder states.

If you come from the hottest part of Africa with a very dark skin tone, like pitch black, you then have an evolutionary disadvantage to that new climate (in America). Black men feel this, so they try to get a white woman, even if it’s an average one, so that their offspring will be adapted to the climate.

This is why black guys often pick REALLY WHITE women, like milk white. It speeds up the transition to light skinned offpsring.

Tanned skin protects you from harmful radiation BUT the trade off is less vitamin-D from the sun. If you are too white you get skin cancer, if you are too black you get a vitamin-D deficiency.

Which, by the way, is very easy and cheap to supplement. All African-American children should get vitamin-D in school for free. Or just put it in the Gatorade.


You can say the bone structure of the “white” caucasian face is generally prefered due to racism, but that came about during the 50 000 years after a black tribe left Africa for Europe. It was a slow gradual process over about 2000 generations.

The black people the emigrated from Africa gave an edge to the lighter skinned individuals among themselves. They started the process of becoming “white”. The further up they were in Europe, the stronger the evolutionary pressure became (because of less sunshine).

Do you honestly think they hated themselves over a period of 50 000 years because of a future concept called “racism“? If you have good reason for believing so, please let me know.

The laws of evolution turned black people with wide noses and large lips into white people with small noses and thin lips.

The white archetype of caucasian beauty is prefered all over the world, or at least not looked down upon. In most regions it is actually prefered.

Asian women have become the new exotic thing in western culture. Many (extremely) high status men pick asian women.

Who also appear to be immune to the toxic modern notions of man-hating feminism. I mean, it’s hard enough to live — happily ever after — already!

Mixes of white and asian, white and black, white and latino might be more attractive than just plain white these days. Sexual preference is a personal choice, you cannot hate a person for what they find attractive.

Relevant Youtube Videos

Here are three Youtube videos on why black men pick white women.

This is a cute little video about some black guys that stopped dating black women due to past experiences. The TV show host wants to, as she said, “dismantle the myth of the angry black woman“.

Black women have a lower psychological health, and more testosterone, which translates to more anger.

Anger outbursts is also more culturally accepted in the African-American community — this might come as a shock for someone who hasn’t experienced it before. She might come across as:

  • “Overbearing”
  • “Extra”
  • “High maintenance”
  • “Too much”
  • “Unpredictable”, “unreliable”, or “unstable”

There is also a deep rooted fear that a penis of average size won’t “please” her. This is a bigger factor than most guys want to admit (especially in a public discussion). For insecure guys it might even be the main reason they avoid black women.

These black women discuss being hurt by seeing all these famous black guys with white women. They struggle to understand WHY these high status guys all pick white women.

Here is a good video by a very cute black girl:

Maybe I should also mention that a woman that is half black half asian is considered high status and desirable in the highest levels of society today.

Celebrities very often pick these mixed race women. Like Blac Chyna is half black half latino:

If you want to read more, here is an interestion forum thread about it from sincere people. Like, name a single woman hotter than Nicki Minage?


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